For me, it is the zoom effect. I analyze my thoughts and feelings in as much detail as I can...then a little more. Why do I feel this way? Why her? It begins physically, some feature: her eyes, her lips, her face. It becomes a little more sexual: her hips, her butt, her thighs...mmmmm, her breasts. But the value of a person goes deeper: how she laughs and makes you feel, how she pours love into the food she cooks for you, how she sings in the car. Then it becomes deeper, more intimate: how she kisses you, how she sounds while making love, the way she sits on you and looks down into your eyes with a loving smile. Then you expand a little more: the way she treats the people around her, the way she gets joy from being polite and being treated with respect, the way she constantly wants to buy gifts for those she cares about...and you are one of them. Ultimately, it is not a little thing you love about a person, never a tiny little feature. It isn't even "all" of them. I think you realize the love you have for a person when you try to pinpoint your feelings and you need to keep looking up to a higher level, expanding, because you realize that what you love about someone is that everything about them builds an entirely new world...for you. They simply change everything. ___________________________________ Tag someone who means something to you. Tag someone who means everything to you. ___________________________________ #wanther#best#together#lessonslearned#lessonslearnedinlife#lovequotesandsayings#worthit#emotional#lovepoems#sharemyfall#poemtoalove#longing#longingheart#surrender#talkingallnight#findingparadise#findingpeace#love#relationshipquotes#romantic#lovequotesandmore#lovequotesdaily#lifeadvice#inspirationalquotes#ab2ja
Or money🤣 after all it takes time.. From your life... to make money. Last time I checked, you can't recover or recycle lost time. I'm the type of person to go the extra mile for someone who wouldn't even cross the street for me. The caveat is you risk burning yourself out for the wrong people leaving no energy and no piece of yourself for the people who TRULY matter. The ones who support you no matter what. The ones whose intentions matches their actions. 😎 Don't be afraid to cut ties. It doesnt matter if you have devoted a significant amount of energy to whatever it is. It's akin to going into the stock market and spending a lot of money buying the wrong stock(securities) . It is said the minute you realize that you made a mistake, you need to get rid of it quick, fast and in a hurry because it's not going to get better. #lessonslearnedinlife#passiveaggressivepeople #🤣#flexfriday#quote#thoughtoftheday#quotes
When someone in your network helps you, what’s the best way to show appreciation? . In this week’s video, I tell you how (and why it’s critical). . Cliff Notes: -Close the loop -Say thank you -Follow up -Pay it forward -Send a real thank you card (tips in the video on how to do make it easier) . Let’s give a round of applause for appreciation (kinda meta: appreciation for appreciation). Full video can be found via link in my bio!