Please guys help me and analyse this cos ayam not understanding again. I have been married for 6 years with 3 kids. Ever since i got married to my husband, he has never allowed me to travel without him. Sometimes he will be soo busy with work that we have to cancel the occasion. If i insist i must go, he will take permission from office just to go with me. Now i have a wedding i need to attend. Shes my mums elder sisters daughter. She called me and begged me that my presence is needed. My husband is now saying that there will be no chance in his office. He is now urging me to cancel my travelling and send her money instead. Please what is happening here? Is it lack of trust or he wants to be with me always. I asked him why hes doing this, he said he just want me to be comfortable. That travelling with 3 kids is not easy but him being around, he will help me out. Is he saying the truth cos i am begining to suspect its a trust issue. #couplestherapy
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Good morning CeeTee. Please post anonymous. I noticed that my brother in law is a bad influence to my girl children. He has been staying with us for 4 months now. He came to lagos to look for work. Recently i caught my elder daughter kissing the younger one. They are 3years and 1year respectively. I have never seen them doing such. They have never for one day see me doing it with my husband. I decided to find out where they learnt those things. When i checked my brother in laws phone, i saw a lot of blue films. And my daughter play a lot with his phone. I confronted him and told him to password his phone and he should not allow my daughter have assess to his phone. There was a day i entered his room to collect something, my daughters were playing with him. He was carrying the elder one on his lap. I took her from him because i wanted her to come and eat. What i saw shocked me, his dick was so hard. So erect that i noticed it tru his trouser. I couldn't hold it to my self. I told my husband about everything i have been noticing. Instead of my husband to find a solution, he starting seeing me as a crazy person for me to think in such direction. I am confused on what to do now that my husband is not seeing what i am seeing. Am i overeacting? How do i handle this situation. The guy is not going anytime soon and if i decide to instruct my girls to stay away from him, my husband will be angry with me. What should i do please? #couplestherapy
Happy sunday therapy members, please i need you guys to analyse this issue. My husband's entails him travelling all the time. There by leaving only me and the children alone most of the time. Sometimes i might need the services of a man. Like starting a generator for me or carrying heavy things which i cant carry. There's this boy i do call anytime i need help. Once i call the guy, he will leave everything he is doing and come to my aid. My husband complained about the guy. That he shouldnt be coming close to me, i acepted and stopped calling him. He connected me to his friend instead and told me to always call his friend. But the problem with his friend is this. Anytime i call him, he will keep postponing the work. Sometimes, i will call him around 7pm to come and start generator, he will end up coming 9; 30 pm. Some work will take him 3 days to do and this is work that needs urgent attention. Now i got close to anoda guy who sees me as a big sister's. I helped the guy with money to start up a business. He now worship me like a god. Anytime i told him to come and work, in a twinkling of eye, he will be here. He even beg me to call him anytime i have a work. He feels thats the only thing he can do for me for the favour i did for him. Now my husband has started complaining again about the new guy. I thought he had a problem with the former guy. Now i understand his problem is guys coming around me. I am not cheating on him and i dont intend doing that. If i send his friend on an errand, i end up paying tripple of the amount cos he always add his own share but if i send that guy, he is truthful. He will tell me the exact prize its being sold. Please how do i make my husband understand this. The person he thinks is his friend is even the one duping him. Do i stay away with d other guy and use his friend even withe d delay in work and other challenges? #couplestherapy