So I stopped by an Indian restaurant today for a quick lunch. Never been there before. Got a seat right next to the entrance. To my surprise I see every customer who walked in hugged this guy (about 20-25 of them) and if it was a stranger he would greet them with a handshake and share a joke with them before he assigns them their seat. By his accent I figured he was from Nepal and by his busyness, that he was the day manager. When asked he said “I am 24 years old sir, I love this job,I love to make people smile.” Now that’s Service with all your heart. Salute to daily heroes like this. #theheronextdoor#jesuscharacter #benice.
Every time I've hit an achievement I credit it to two things: the grind and the people that helped me along the way. The best way to connect with people, to negotiate with them, is to be genuinely interested in them, what serves their needs, and to provide it selflessly - with no expectations in return. Continually doing this will create a habit of helping people, creating the effect of lasting happiness in your life. Moreover, selfless service has a way of attracting the right people. Having the ability to build lasting relationships will not only help you, but build happiness in the lives of everyone involved, and build value that is greater than the sum of its parts. A 75 year Harvard study found the 1 secret to a fulfilling life: The good life is built with good relationships. I've found that to be true for myself. What do you feel? #masterymondays
HAPPY MONDAY!! Is this you? Because I KNOW this is me!! NOTHING FITS TODAY!! I’m swearing off beer. I’m sticking to mixed drinks. Let’s cheer each other n through this week and motivate each other. To all my ladies out there....don’t be scandalous and burn another woman’s candle out just to succeed. That right there is shady and low. Instead be genuine , authentic and have some integrity for crying out loud. Say hi to your haters and make em come to you and greet them with a smile. Look em in the eye and greet them. Don’t back down. Let them know that YOU are the one with integrity just by saying hi and greeting them. If they wronged you by playing corporate games and it was truly wrong....don’t let ANYONE play with your pocket book. Report that shit! Because if that person can do it to YOU , they’ll do it to someone else and keep getting away with it. Standing up for what’s right comes with a price...one is a lonely number. Sometimes though, you find out other people are reporting stuff because they’re sick of the games. Then you realize you are not alone. But do know, the shady lack of ethics and integrity person has their following. They’re telling them lies and making a story so they sound good. Those people don’t want to listen to the truth or your side , they don’t want to get involved and are fascinated by this persons title and they WILL ignore you and stop talking to you. All of a sudden they don’t come around as much. Pettiness. Surprise yourself and BE STRONG. Stand strong for what’s right. Don’t let anyone play with your pocket book. Especially silly rabbits , trix are made for kids. Those of you going through tough times, fight through it AND learn. Don’t let that ever happen again. #fashionista#careergoals#careercoaching#latinafashionblogger#fashionblogger#corporatelife#officelife#coveryourself#documentlife#becareful with those people who lie to your face and get caught . #benice#helpeachother