you know what’s not fair?? when you and your sister are treated like crap because we don’t have kids. i hate to break it to my other sister, but that’s the ONLY reason she’s not treated terribly. and then your mother gets mad when you tell her she needs to chill out on your sister after she defended her from your other sister calling her selfish and calling her boyfriend a dead-beat. it’s ridiculous. that’s why you don’t have any of your kids. state ain’t even take us, she doesn’t do anything wrong or illegal, she’s just intolerable.